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07 Feb 2013
Listen to can not only make the person produces intimacy, ease the pressure on the other side, Nanjing City subconscious to facilitate its work efficiency, also can make us better understand each other and he meant, to lay the foundation for future contact.

Give and take is everywhere, as long as we face the choice of advance and retreat, face, face trade-offs, face all sorts of decisions, will involve the give and take of the problem. When we communicate with others, speak or listen to is that we must choose the problem.

What is more, listen, or more good, depends on the situation. People experience in interpersonal relationships in speaking, listening is more important than that.

A good listener is easily accepted by people, but also more popular, this is because the listener in the listener's eyes see the respect, Privater Beitrag urban life they are willing to put more things out with the listener to share.

Concentrate on listening to others, we give praise the most effective, regardless of the speaker is the boss, colleagues, subordinates or customers, or any other person, the listener will make the speaker feel comfortable. People always pay more attention to their own problems and interest, if someone is willing to listen to them talk about their own, they will immediately be attention to feeling, so more willing to exchange with the listener, or even go on. In addition, listen to not only can make the person produces intimacy, ease the pressure on the other side, to facilitate its work efficiency, also can make us better understand each other and he meant, to lay the foundation for future contact.

We must have this experience, we are in and some colleagues talk, perhaps years strength like against a wall. The other is not reaction is only that he. Both sides appear in the dialogue, is actually talking to themselves, this exchange can not simply the effect of communication, such a person is simply not a good listener. Not good at listening to people, even if the re-competent, will also become the makers of workplace problems, no one is willing to deal with him. Because of not good at listening to people not well understand the speaker's intended meaning, the speaker wants him to go east, because he misunderstood, south-easterly direction to go, come out the effect of direction is wrong, prove futile.

Listening is very powerful, if held listening skills, we will become a popular person, so, listen to what skills?

1, listen to a good state of mind;

A good mental state, almost decide to listen to the quality. If communication a distraction, cachexia, so he wouldn't have to listen to the effect. We and others in effect flow, graduation appliances want to maintain mental alertness, carefully listening to others.

2, timely response

The conversation, how to use their own posture, facial expressions and interjections, such as smile, nod, say is

3, when necessary to keep quiet.

Silence is a means of interpersonal communication, used properly can achieve " silence is better than sound" effect. But the silence must be the occasion, not pretend to be profound and abuse of silence. In addition, silence must with linguistic complement each other, to get the best results.

4, timely and appropriate questions

Timely and appropriate questions is a listening method, it can encourage the speaker to talk, the future ties mutually beneficial mutual communication.

5, don't interrupt each other.

When the other is due to the expression of content or emotion and make their own language scattered or confusion, you should be patient enough to listen to his narrative. Even if some of the content is not to hear, have patience and listening, never in the others don't express your meaning, free to interrupt the speaker.


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